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Dear Shandy
Sharleen Joynt & Andy Levine
Sharleen Joynt and Andy Levine—aka "Shandy"—combine dating advice and reality show recaps for a fun analysis of modern romance. Sharleen and Andy are two former commitment-phobes who have now been married for over a decade. They don’t believe in fate, soulmates, or The One. So how did they wind up so happily married?…
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Q&A! Childfree Judgment & "I Love My Guy But Hate His Diet" - Ep 482
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The Ultimatum's Blake Robertson Speaks Out - Ep 481
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The Ultimatum S4: Finale & Reunion Recap & Review - Ep 480
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The Ultimatum S4: Episodes 5-8 Recap & Review - Ep 479
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The Ultimatum S4: Episodes 1-4 Recap & Review - Ep 478
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Love Island S8: Week 6 & FINALE Recap & Review - Ep 477
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Love Island S8: Week 5 Recap & Review - Ep 476
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Caller 📞 Sessions! "I Let Myself Get Excited & He Promptly Dumped Me—What Happened & WHERE IS HE?!" - Ep 475
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Love Island S8: Week 4 Recap & Review - Ep 474
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Love Island S8: Week 3 Recap & Review - Ep 473
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Q&A! "If He Wanted To, He Would": Timeless Or Outdated? - Ep 472
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Love Island S8: Week 2 Recap & Review - Ep 471
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Love Island S8: Week 1 Recap & Review - Ep 470
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Q&A! Dating For The $$$ Lifestyle & His Secret Deepfake Stash - Ep 469
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Confessions With 'Perfect Match''s Dave Hand - Ep 468
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Perfect Match S4: FINALE Recap & Review - Ep 467
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Q&A! Demystifying The Moody Husband & Is Timing *Really* Everything? - Ep 466
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Perfect Match S4: Episodes 6-7 Recap & Review - Ep 465
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Perfect Match S4: Episodes 1-5 Recap & Review - Ep 464
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U Up? x Dear Shandy: Jared Freid & Jordana Abraham Unpack Modern Romance - Ep 463
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Q&A! Your Boyfriend Steals Your Jokes & The Setup From Hell - Ep 462
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Rewire Your Brain & Get "Unsingle" With Amy Chan - 461
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Q&A! Blinded By Breadcrumbs & Does His Bad Taste Mean Bad Compatibility? - Ep 460
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Temptation Island S2: Episodes 6-9 Recap & Review - Ep 459
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Temptation Island S2: Episodes 1-5 Recap & Review - Ep 458
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Age Of Attraction: REUNION Recap & Review - Ep 457
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Age Of Attraction: Episodes 6, 7 & FINALE Recap & Review - Ep 456
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Age Of Attraction: Episodes 1-5 Recap & Review - Ep 455
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'The Bachelorette' With Taylor Frankie Paul Is CANCELLED—Shandy Weighs In - Ep 454
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Q&A! Your Boyfriend Isn't "Obsessed" With You & Your Dad Has 2 Girlfriends - Ep 453
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Love Is Blind S10: Reunion Recap & Review - Ep 452
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Love Is Blind S10: Finale Recap & Review - Ep 451
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The Traitors S4: Finale & Reunion Recap & Review - Ep 450
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Love Is Blind S10: Episodes 10-11 Recap & Review - Ep 449
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The Traitors S4: Episode 10 Recap & Review - Ep 448
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Love Is Blind S10: Episodes 7-9 Recap & Review - Ep 447
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The Traitors S4: Episode 9 Recap & Review - Ep 446
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Love Is Blind S10: Episodes 1-6 Recap & Review - Ep 445
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The Traitors S4: Episode 8 Recap & Review - Ep 444
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UPDATES To Shandies' Questions, Volume 7! - Ep 443
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The Traitors S4: Episode 7 Recap & Review - Ep 442
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Q&A! How To Tell Your Friends They're Filthy & Finding Your Own "Andy" - Ep 441
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The Traitors S4: Episode 6 Recap & Review - Ep 440
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Caller 📞 Sessions! "Should I Invite My Sister On A Vacation I Know She Can't Afford?" - Ep 439
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Love Is Blind Germany S2: REUNION Recap & Review - Ep 438
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The Traitors S4: Episodes 4-5 Recap & Review - Ep 437
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Love Is Blind Germany S2: FINALE Recap & Review - Ep 436
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Q&A! Blocked Over An Emoji & My Friend's Affair With My Married Sister - Ep 435
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Love Is Blind Germany S2: Episodes 5-8 Recap & Review - Ep 434
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The Traitors S4: Episodes 1-3 Recap & Review - Ep 433
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Love Is Blind Germany S2: Episodes 1-4 Recap & Review - Ep 432
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2025 In Review + BONUS Q&A! The Year's Ups And Downs & Your Juicy Qs Answered - Ep 431
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LOVE FEST! Mel Owens & Peg Munson Are Shandies And They Came With Notes - Ep 430
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Q&A! Dating Despite A Dealbreaker & Was His Anniversary Gift Kinky Or Just Inappropriate? - Ep 429
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LOVE FEST! Andrew Spencer & Alexe Godin Let Us Into The Chaos - Ep 428
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LOVE FEST! Jeremy Simon & Bailey Taylor Brown Are Ready To Surprise You - Ep 427
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The Golden Bachelor S2: Finale | AFTER THE FINAL ROSE | Recap & Review - Ep 426
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The Golden Bachelor S2: Ep 7 | FANTASY SUITES | Recap & Review - Ep 425
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The Golden Bachelor's Theresa Nist Responds To Gerry Turner's Book Claims - Ep 424
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Love Is Blind S9: Ep 13 | REUNION | Recap & Review - Ep 423
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The Golden Bachelor S2: Ep 6 | WOMEN TELL ALL | Recap & Review - Ep 422
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The Golden Bachelor S2: Ep 5 Recap & Review - Ep 421
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Love Is Blind S9: Ep 12 | FINALE | Recap & Review - Ep 420
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The Golden Bachelor S2: Ep 4 Recap & Review - Ep 419
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Love Is Blind S9: Eps 10-11 | THIRD BATCH | Recap & Review - Ep 418
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The Golden Bachelor S2: Ep 3 Recap & Review - Ep 417
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Love Is Blind S9: Eps 7-9 | SECOND BATCH | Recap & Review - Ep 416
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The Golden Bachelor S2: Ep 2 Recap & Review - Ep 415
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Love Is Blind S9: Eps 1-6 | THE PODS | Recap & Review - Ep 414
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The Golden Bachelor S2: Ep 1 Recap & Review - Ep 413
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Q&A! Admitting To Ozempic & Getting Caught Wanking - Ep 412
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5 Year Anniversary Q&A! Answering YOUR Questions - Ep 411
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Bachelor In Paradise S10: Finale Recap & Review - Ep 410
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UPDATES To Shandies' Questions, Volume 6! - Ep 409
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Bachelor In Paradise S10: Ep 9 Recap & Review - Ep 408
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Bachelor In Paradise S10: Ep 8 Recap & Review - Ep 407
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Perfect Match S3 Recap: Ep 10 (Finale) - Ep 406
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Bachelor In Paradise S10: Ep 7 Recap & Review - Ep 405
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Perfect Match S3 Recap: Eps 7-9 (Batch 2) - Ep 404
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Bachelor In Paradise S10: Ep 6 Recap & Review - Ep 403
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Unpacking Netflix's 'Perfect Match' With Clayton Echard - Ep 402
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Perfect Match S3 Recap: Eps 1-6 (Batch 1) - Ep 401
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Bachelor In Paradise S10: Ep 5 Recap & Review - Ep 400!!!
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Q&A! Threesome Confusion & Giving Mom Dating Advice - Ep 399
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Bachelor In Paradise S10: Ep 4 Recap & Review - Ep 398
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Bachelor In Paradise S10: Ep 3 Recap & Review - Ep 397
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Bachelor In Paradise S10: Ep 2 Recap & Review - Ep 396
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Bachelor In Paradise S10: Ep 1 Recap & Review - Ep 395
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The Ultimatum Queer Love S2 Recap: Finale & Reunion - Ep 394
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The Ultimatum Queer Love S2 Recap: Batch 1, Part 2 - Ep 393
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The Ultimatum Queer Love S2 Recap: Batch 1, Part 1 - Ep 392
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Q&A! His Bad Oral Hygiene 💀 & How To De-Friend Your Hinge Date - Ep 391
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Caller 📞 Sessions! "I'm In Love With My Married Business Partner!" - Ep 390
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Q&A! Her Eyelashes Are Distracting & Whether Or Not To BLOW His Cover - Ep 389
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Caller 📞 Sessions! "He Can't Be Alone—Is This A Red Flag?" - Ep 388
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Q&A! Your Dad Kills Squirrels & Therapy Policing - Ep 387
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The Sidebar: Sinners, Juice Inflation, Cops On Phones & Patrick Schwarzenegger - Ep 386
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Love Is Blind's Joey & Sara Tell All - Ep 385
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Money For Couples (& A Possible Recession) With Ramit Sethi - Ep 384
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Caller 📞 Sessions! "How Do I Regain The Power In My Open Relationship?" - Ep 383
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Q&A! Is Flirting A Dying Art? & Money Manipulation - Ep 382
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Caller 📞 Sessions! "My Parents Don't Approve Of My Poly Lifestyle—Help!" - Ep 381
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The Bachelor's Carolina Tells All - Ep 380
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Love Is Blind's Meg & Mason Tell All - Ep 379
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The Sidebar: Severance S2, Pretty Privilege & Andy's Worst You're Welcome - Ep 378
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Bachelor Recap: Finale | Grant's Coin Toss & A Golden Surprise - Ep 377
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Q&A! Prince Skid Mark Charming & Fighting Over Reality TV - Ep 376
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Bachelor Recap: Ep 8 | Fantasy Suites Are Just A Fantasy - Ep 375
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Bachelor Recap: Women Tell All | Carolina Vs Dina, The Battle Rages On - Episodes 374
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Love Is Blind Recap: Weddings & Reunion | Daniel And Taylor Prevail - Ep 373
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Q&A! Dirty Dreams = Cheating?, Group Text Hell & Being Second Choice - Ep 372
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Bachelor Recap: Ep 6 | Searching For Grant Ellis, Searching For Hometowns - Ep 371
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Love Is Blind Recap: Eps 10-12 | Breaking Up Is Hard To Do - Ep 370
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Bachelor Recap: Ep 5 | A Lone Wolf & His Distressed Damsels - Ep 369
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Love Is Blind Recap: Eps 7-9 | Dave Puts The Ass In Honduras - Ep 368
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Bachelor Recap: Ep 4 | The Ladies Take Bull From Grant & Co In Madrid - Ep 367
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Love Is Blind Recap: Eps 1-6 | The Pods; Love Triangles Galore - Ep 366
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Bachelor Recap: Ep 3 | Grant's Mansion Of Tears - Ep 365
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Keeping The Spark In Long Term Relationships With Emily Nagoski - Ep 364
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Bachelor Recap: Ep 2 | Bachelor Recap: Ep 2 - Carolina & Zoe Shoot Their Villain Shot - Ep 363
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LOVE FEST! Joan Vassos & Chock Chapple Talk NYC Apartment Hunting And Throw Pillows - Ep 362
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Bachelor Recap: Ep 1 | Lone Wolf Grant Ellis Seeks His Mate - Ep 361
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Confessions With 'The Ultimatum''s Nicholas Tramontin - Ep 360
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UPDATES To Shandies' Questions, Volume 5! - Ep 359
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LOVE FEST! Garrett & Taylor Josemans-Krause Going A Year Plus Strong - Ep 358
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The Ultimatum Recap, Finale & Reunion: Breakup City - Ep 357
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2024 In Review! 🎉 Bests, Worsts & Worth The Money - Ep 356
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The Ultimatum Recap, Episodes 6-8: Kiss Me Once, Shame On Me, Kiss Me Twice... - Ep 355
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Q&A! His Wandering Eye For Instagram Models, Porn & Past Lovers - Ep 354
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The Ultimatum Recap, Episodes 1-5: A Couple Of Coy Cuckolds - Ep 353
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Love Is Blind Recap: Finale & Reunion | Breakups, Weddings & Sperm Baby-Gate - Ep 352
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Q&A! Sexless Marriage And Your Friend Owes You $1000 - Ep 351
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Love Is Blind Recap: Eps 7-9 | Ramses Says No To Ramses While Stephen Says Yes To Everything - Ep 350
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Caller 📞 Sessions! "Did He Break The Bro Code By Telling Me About Another Guy's Cheating?" - Ep 349
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Love Is Blind Recap: Eps 1-6 | The Pods To Mexico - Ep 348
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Golden Bachelorette Recap: Finale | Joan, Guy & The Big Chock Block - Ep 347
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Q&A! Being Direct, Burying Dreams And Playing Paparazzi - Ep 346
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Golden Bachelorette Recap: Men Tell All | True Bromance + Charles Is Back In Black - Ep 345
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Golden Bachelorette Ep 7 Recap: Standing Room Only In The Fantasy Suite - Ep 344
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Q&A! Becoming The Mistress & Does "Pretty" Mean More Friends? - Ep 343
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Golden Bachelorette Ep 6 Recap: Joan's Hometowns, A Tale Of 3 Cities - Ep 342
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Golden Bachelorette Ep 5 Recap: Catch Chock If You Can - Ep 341
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Q&A! Your Boyfriend Hates Your Singing & Friends Who Disappear When In Love - Ep 340
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Golden Bachelorette Ep 4 Recap: It's Chock O'Clock For Joan - Ep 339
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Golden Bachelorette Recap: Ep 3 | Joan & Pascal Hit The Vegas Strip - Ep 338
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Q&A! How To Hit On Your Cousin, Unrequited Birthdays & Grey Hair: To Dye Or Not To Dye? - Ep 337
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Golden Bachelorette Recap: Ep 2 | Joan And The Giant Leaf - Ep 336
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Golden Bachelorette Recap: Ep 1 | The Arc Of Joan Begins - Ep 335
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4 Year Anniversary Q&A! Answering YOUR Questions - Ep 334
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Q&A! "Bad" Friends, Annoying Roommates & Confusing Gym Guys - Ep 333
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Bachelorette Recap: Finale | Devin & Jenn, A Shakespearean Tragedy - Ep 332
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LOVE FEST! Caelynn & Dean Bell Are Mega Yin Yang - Ep 331
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Bachelorette Recap: Ep 8 + Men Tell All | Fantasy Suites & Hot Seats - Ep 330
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Your Crappy Childhood Ft Anna Runkle, Aka Crappy Childhood Fairy - Ep 329
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Bachelorette Recap: Ep 7 | Hometownzzzzzzz... 😴 - Ep 328
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Q&A! The Case For Fading, Judging Breastfeeding & Confronting Tardy Friends - Ep 327
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Bachelorette Recap: Ep 6 | Sam And The Case Of The Missing Adjectives - Ep 326
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UPDATES To Shandies' Questions, Volume 4! - Ep 325
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Bachelorette Recap: Ep 5 | Farmer Devin & The Sheep Herders - Ep 324
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Caller 📞 Sessions! Career Vs Love: "He Moved For My Dream And Now Says It's 'My Turn'" - Ep 333
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Bachelorette Recap ft. Wells Adams: Ep 4 | Sam, Devin and Smoked Sam’N - Ep 332
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Q&A! Bi-Curiosity, Sister Read Your Journal & Does Imitation = Flattery? - Ep 321 -Dear Shandy
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Bachelorette Recap: Ep 3 | Smooth Fists, Rough Personality - Ep 320
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Bachelorette Recap: Ep 2 | Devin Gets A Pearl Necklace - Ep 319
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A Day In The Life Of Dave Neal - Ep 318
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Bachelorette Recap: Ep 1 | Jenn Tran Makes History And A Historic Makeout - Ep 317
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Q&A! Dating a Guy Who's TOO Handsome, A 14-Year Situationship, & Right Guy, Wrong Timing? - Ep 316
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Caller 📞 Sessions! "Should I Avoid My Reunion Because I Feel Like An Outcast?" - Ep 315
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Perfect Match Recap: Finale | How Did We Get Here & Why Did We Come? - Ep 314
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Q&A! Holding Grudges, When He "Forgets" He Said The L-Word, and Big Age Gaps - Ep 313
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Perfect Match Recap: Eps 7-9 | Harry Jowsey And The Bathroom Kiss Whodunit - Ep 312
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Perfect Match Recap: Eps 1-6 | Shandy Pops Their Perfect Match Cherry - Ep 311
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We Got A Dog!!! Shandy's Dog Adoption Story - Ep 310
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Q&A! Morality Check, What To Do When Your Friend Deserves Better, & A Travel Am-I-The-A-Hole Bonanza! - Ep 309
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Heal Your Attachment Pattern With Eli Harwood, Aka @AttachmentNerd - Ep 308
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Q&A! Responding To Stupid Questions, Friend-less Fiancé, & To Wed Or Not To Wed? - Ep 307
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Caller 📞 Session! "Is My Relationship Worth Saving?" - Ep 306
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We're Officiants! Officiating Nick & Natalie Joy Viall's Wedding - Ep 305
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Q&A! Too Much Complaining, The Seed Of Resentment & Is "Boring" Healthy? - Ep 304
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The Genius Of Empathy With Dr. Judith Orloff - Ep 303
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GOLDEN DIVORCE?! Gerry Turner & Theresa Nist's Bombshell Announcement - Ep 302
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The School Of Dating With Matchmaker Maria (Part 2!) - Ep 301
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Q&A! Competition In Friendship, High-Strung Low-Strung & Is "Nice" Enough? - Ep 300
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LOVE FEST! Charity Lawson & Dotun Olubeko Are A Dreamy Double Date - Ep 299
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Bachelor Recap: Finale | A Historic Bachelorette Crowning And The Twist That Never Was - Ep 298
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LOVE FEST! Gerry Turner & Theresa Nist Share Their Post-Golden Wedding Glow - Ep 297
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Bachelor Recap: Women Tell All | Pack Your Hammer & Your Olive Branch - Ep 296
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Love Is Blind Recap: Reunion | Like Sands Through The Hourglass - Ep 295
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Bachelor Recap: Ep 9 | Seeking The Fantasy in Fantasy Suites - Ep 294
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Love Is Blind Recap: Ep 12 | One Wedding & A Funeral (The Finale) - Ep 293
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Bachelor Recap: Ep 8 | Joey's Coming For Dinner (aka Hometowns) - Ep 292
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Love Is Blind Recap: Eps 10-11 | Chelsea, Jimmy & The Impending Zombie Apocalypse - Ep 291
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Bachelor Recap: Ep 7 | And Down The Hometown Stretch They Come - Ep 290
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Love Is Blind Recap: Eps 7-9 | The Good, The Bad & The Clingy - Ep 289
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Bachelor Recap: Ep 6 | Voulez Vous Faire Poutine Avec Moi - Ep 288
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Love Is Blind Recap *PART 2*: Eps 1-6 | Jimmy Gets Out-Foxed - Ep 287
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Love Is Blind Recap *PART 1*: Eps 1-6 | May The Pods Have Mercy - Ep 286
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LOVE FEST! Brayden Bowers & Christina Mandrell On The Competition To Serve - Ep 285
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Bachelor Recap: Eps 4 & 5 | Tag, You're Villain - Ep 284
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Tap Into Your Intuition With Natalie Miles - Ep 283
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Bachelor Recap: Ep 3 | To Bully Or Not To Bully - Ep 282
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Q&A! Unrequited Generosity, The Gossip Mill, And Once Ick, Always Ick? - Ep 281
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Bachelor Recap: Ep 2 | 30 Is The New 60 - Ep 280
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Your Situationship Is Too Comfortable - Ep 279
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Bachelor Recap: Ep 1 | Everything's A Game And It's Joey's Serve - Ep 278
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Q&A! Anxiety Talking On The Phone, The Middle Name, & If Shandy's Changed Their Tune On A 3-Year-Old Take - Ep 277
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UPDATES To Shandies' Questions, Volume 3! - Ep 276
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2023 IN REVIEW! 🎊 Your Favorites of 2023 Questions + Our Fave Q&As Of The Year! - Ep 275
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Q&A! Andy's Advice To Guys On Approaching Women IRL, Phone Addiction & House Key Etiquette - Ep 274
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Bachelor In Paradise Recap: Finale | It's Always About The F***ing Ring - Ep 273
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Golden Bachelor Recap: Finale | The Good, The Bad & The Gerry - Ep 272
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Bachelor In Paradise Recap: Ep 9 | Relationships Crumble & The Dogs Come Sniffing - Ep 271
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Q&A! Pre-Date Sleuthing, An F Sans The Buddy, & Red Wine Lucy - Ep 270
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Will We Ruin A Good Thing By Moving In Too Soon? Help! - Ep 269
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Golden Bachelor Recap: Fantasy Suites | Two Women, One Restaurateur - Ep 268
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Bachelor In Paradise Recap: Ep 8 | Katie Thurston Hosts A Roast - Ep 267
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Confessions With Katie Thurston - Ep 266
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Golden Bachelor Recap: Women Tell All | A Tell All For The Ages - Ep 265
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Bachelor In Paradise Recap: Ep 7 | The King & The Kat Burglar - Ep 264
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Q&A! When A Good Guy's A Bad Kisser, "No Eggshells" Vs Shared Humor, & Having A Hot Dad - Ep 263
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Golden Bachelor Recap: Ep 6 | When Hometowns Hit Different - Ep 262
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Bachelor In Paradise Recap: Ep 6 | The Scandal You Never Saw Coming - Ep 261
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Golden Bachelor Recap: Ep 5 | A Rollercoaster To Hometowns - Ep 260
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Bachelor In Paradise Recap: Ep 5 | Another Cake Bites The Dust - Ep 259
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Women Without Kids With Ruby Warrington - Ep 258
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Golden Bachelor Recap: Ep 4 | Pickle Me Pink - Ep 257
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Bachelor In Paradise Recap: Ep 4 | Bacon, Eggs & A Side Of John Henry - Ep 256
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Golden Bachelor Recap: Ep 3 | Kathy & Theresa Take It Outside - Ep 255
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Bachelor In Paradise Recap: Ep 3 | Cold Kat And Hot Sh$t - Ep 254
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Q&A! Asking A Woman To Shave Her Legs, Paying For A Friend's Birthday, And Wanting A New Ring - Ep 253
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Golden Bachelor Recap: Ep 2 | Gerry, Take The Wheel - Ep 252
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Bachelor In Paradise Recap: Ep 2 | Hannah Brown's Bonfire Of Bummers - Ep 251
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Golden Bachelor Recap: Ep 1 | It's Gerrrrrr-ific - Ep 250
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Bachelor In Paradise Recap: Ep 1 | These Toes Were Made For Sucking - Ep 249
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LOVE FEST! Hayley Kiyoko & Becca Tilley Are An Island & A Wave - Ep 248
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I Accidentally Stoked My Boyfriend's Jealousy—Am I The A-Hole? - Ep 247
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3 Year Anniversary Q&A! Answering YOUR Questions - Ep 246
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Q&A! "Always A Cheater", A Locked Room In A Shared Home, & Helping A Shandy Make Friends - Ep 245
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LOVE FEST! Chelsea Vaughn & Austin Tinsley On Life After Paradise Canada - Ep 244
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I'm Accidentally Involved In A Cheating Scandal—Am I The A-Hole? - Ep 243
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Bachelorette Recap: Finale | Charity Finds Love & Other Stuff Happens - Ep 242
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Navigating Narcissism With Dr. Ramani - Ep 241
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Bachelorette Recap: Men Tell All | FP and Lukewarm Tea - Ep 240
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Q&A! Massively Passive, Don't Tell Me I'm Pretty & A Womp-Womp Wedding Gift - Ep 239
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Bachelorette Recap: Ep 7 | What Could Go Wrong In Fiji? - Ep 238
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LOVE FEST! Alexis Waters & Tyler Fernandez Prove Opposites Attract - Ep 237
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Bachelorette Recap: Ep 6 | What's Love Got To Do With It? - Ep 236
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My Parents Are Beefing—Am I Wrong To Pick A Side? - Ep 235
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Bachelorette Recap: Ep 5 | Family, Family, Family, Family, Family, Family, Family, Family... - Ep 234
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UPDATES To Shandies' Questions, Volume 2! - Ep 233
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Bachelorette Recap: Ep 2 | Worst Spring Break Ever - Ep 228
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LOVE FEST! When Love Lands In Your Inbox With Bennett Jordan & Emily Chen - Ep 223
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Do My Dating Requirements Make Me A Gold Digger? - Ep 222
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Q&A! Engagement Envy, Torn Between Two Weddings, & Emotional Cheating, But... - Ep 221
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We Plan To Elope But Fear His Parents Will Freak Out—Help!
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The Psychology Of Reality TV Dating With Dr. Kirk Honda
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Love Is Blind Recap: Seattle Pt 2 | Countdown To Marriage-ageddon
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Q&A! When Is It *Really* Over, Romance MIA, & Pickleball Fights
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Bachelor Recap: Finale | Love Triangle Of Sadness
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LOVE FEST! Getting Real (And Real Naked) With Danielle Maltby & Michael Allio
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Bachelor Recap: Women Tell All | BIP Auditions And A "Surprise" Crowning
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Open Relationships With Emily Gindlesparger
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Q&A! Being The Mistress, Ending A Friendship, & A Hallmark Love Story
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Bachelor Recap: Ep 5 | The Princess And The Tea
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Chris Bukowski & Anna Redman On Being Best Friends Who Play Games
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Bachelor Recap: Ep 4 | Kat’s Out Of The Bag & Fight Flub (ft. Claire & Emma Of Love To See It)
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Confessions Of A Matchmaker With Matchmaker Maria
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