SCOUT· 69%54m·2026-07-13·Arts CultureYou Slept With My Best Friend
The two couples had been inseparable—neighbors, chosen family, godparents to each other's children. She reaches out to Esther in despair after discovering that her husband had a ten-year-old affair with her best friend. For a decade, he kept the betrayal hidden while she believed they had built a loving marriage and…
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“He is claiming to think about it everyday for 10 years but he still can't explain why he had the affair or what it meant to him, even though it lasted over a year?? To me, that either means he's not being honest or he hasn't done the work t…”
“If my husband and I had received this type of "therapy" at the beginning of our healing from his affair, we would have never made it. The "how can you love me better" conversations are absolutely needed to rebuild a marriage, but not before…”
“This episode is wild. The wife has decided she wants to stay and Esther created a path to allow that. But can she stomach it?! The husband is very poorly equipped. Yikes.”
“She found out about the affair because someone else told the husband of his affair partner, her best friend. He didn’t tell her. Now he is dealing with the situation to avoid further damage. Esther tells her that she was not affectionate en…”
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