

Never Say "Let Me Know If"
When someone you care about is grieving, the pressure to say the right thing can be paralyzing. You want to help, but you don't want to make it worse. In this episode, I break down exactly what to say—and what not to say—when someone is dealing with profound loss. We cover why "let me know if you need anything"…

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“When my father died, which was in 2004 I had two friends come over married couple and just sat and listen to me. I told stories about my dad for a couple hours. Then later she told me she went to her dad‘s house afterward and hugged him! I…”
“I agree Jefferson. I was working as a contractor in Qatar when my mother passed away. It was very unexpected. I had never felt so alone in my life. As an American there, my community was pretty small. I called a close friend and he was at m…”
“This message is exactly what I needed to hear today. My friend's mum passed away 2 months ago. She's still stuck in South Africa because of selling her mum's house etc. I immediately asked her if there's any way to get into her house and sh…”
“I lost my only grandbaby at birth……..6 months later his Daddy, my only child took his life in the military on active duty. This was 11 years ago. Pure hell. Everything you said not to say is spot on and everything you suggest is right on…………”
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