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The Slumflower Hour
Chidera Eggerue
As the manosphere rises and men continue to terrorise us, how will you decide what your own happy ending looks like? Join Chidera Eggerue aka The Slumflower on her debut, much-awaited podcast The Slumflower Hour - the domain for disobedient women who date men! Is he really 'busy' or is he bored of you? Do you have the…
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THE UNMARRIABLE WOMAN
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PROTECT YOUR VULNERABILITY
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GIRL, SLOW DOWN...
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THE MALE EGO
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TRAIN HIM!
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DATING AS A MAN HATER?
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THE WOMAN WHO IS WILLING TO WALK
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THE PERFORMATIVE MAN
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OPTIMISING YOUR DATING EXPERIENCE
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THE ALPHA WOMAN
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BECAUSE OF A MAN
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YOU ARE IN DENIAL
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MAINTAINING COMPOSURE
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FEMALE RAGE
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MEN MAKE YOU SICK!
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MAINTAINING THE STANDARD WHEN THINGS ARE GOING WELL
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THE NEXT GIRL
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BLACK CAT VS GOLDEN RETRIEVER
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SO YOU HAVE A PAST...
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THE HOT GIRLFRIEND
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THE PRIDEFUL MAN
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WIFEY MATERIAL?
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REBELLION
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BREAKING UP WITH HIM
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THE CHASE
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SO YOU CRASHED OUT...
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HIS MUSE
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YOU DON'T NEED TO SAVE HIM
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STAY FOCUSED!
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HIS PROBATION PERIOD...
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ABOUT BEING A GIRLS GIRL...
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BITTERNESS
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SO YOU WENT THROUGH HIS PHONE...
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SO YOU'RE GOING ON A GIRLS NIGHT OUT...
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THE POLITICS OF P*SSY POWER FT. PAMELA BLONDE
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*SEASON 3 FINALE* WE NEED TO BE MORE MEAN TO MEN!
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THE MAN CHILD
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TRANSPARENCY?
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SO YOU'VE BEEN DUMPED!
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TOXIC FEMININITY
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WHITE FEMINISM...
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SO YOU KEEP GIVING HIM CHANCES...
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REJECTION?
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IS IT TOO LATE?
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DESIRE IS POLITICAL
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MARRIAGE IS S*X WORK
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DATING OLDER MEN VS YOUNGER MEN
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REPEATING THE SAME MISTAKE
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LISTEN TO THIS BEFORE YOU GO ON THAT DATE!
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ABOUT STINGY MEN...
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MISSING HIM?
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BREAKING YOUR HEART FOR YOUR ART?
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DETACHING WITH DIGNITY
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MALE PRIVILEGE
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WE NEED TO REJECT MEN MORE OFTEN
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BEING THE WOMAN HE CAN AFFORD
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ATTRACTIVE MEN?
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MALE-CENTRED WOMEN?
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MEN WILL NEVER CHANGE
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ARE YOU PRIME PREY?
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HOMEWRECKER?
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CASUAL SEX?
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COMMUNICATION IS NOT KEY!
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HOPELESS ROMANTIC?
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USE HIM
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HOW TO NOT GET ATTACHED
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ENERGETIC HARVESTING
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LOSING HOPE?
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THE STRONG WOMAN
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POOR COOCHIE MANAGEMENT
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THE TOXIC GIRLFRIEND
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DATING IN A STINGY COUNTRY
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HAPPY VALENTINE'S DAY!
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SO HE'S GOTTEN TOO COMFORTABLE...
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*SEASON 2 FINALE* THE FEMDOM CHRONICLES WITH OG TIERRA DOLL
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NEEDING MEN...
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ABOUT MALE 'FRIENDS'...
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DICKMATIZED?
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SPENDING HIS MONEY
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STICKING TO YOUR GUNS
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SUBTLE SIGNS HE'S NOT THE ONE
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DO LOOKS MATTER?
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OVERCOMING THE FEAR OF ASKING MEN FOR STUFF
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ARE YOU A STRICT BABE?
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HOW TO EXPLOIT MEN
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IS HE A BOYFRIEND OR IS HE A TRAUMA BOND?
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HAVING HIS BABIES?
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DATING AS A FIRST BORN DAUGHTER
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HOW TO DATE NIGERIAN MEN
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SO YOU'RE NOT LEARNING YOUR LESSON...
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DATING WHILE NEURODIVERGENT
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THE PARADOX OF THE PICK-ME
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WHEN THE LOVE BOMBING DOESN'T WORK...
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FEARING MEN
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HOW TO MOVE ON
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BECOMING MORE ASSERTIVE
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PROVIDER?
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THE 'MALE LONELINESS EPIDEMIC'
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THE EXIT PLAN
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ALPHA MEN?
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THE ICK
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SO HE WANTS TO MARRY YOU...
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DOING IT FOR THE PLOT
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DATING FOR LOOKS?
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DATING DEPRESSED MEN...
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WHEN HE FINALLY SWITCHES UP ON YOU...
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WE NEED TO TALK ABOUT MARRIED MEN...
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ARE YOU MAKING EXCUSES?
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WHAT IF *THIS* IS IT?
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DATING MULTIPLE MEN
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THE UNFORGIVING WOMAN
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ARE STRAIGHT WOMEN OKAY?
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ABOUT 'BLACK LOVE'...
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SHOULD YOU POST YOUR MAN?
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HOW MEN CONTROL YOU
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ARE YOU TOO GULLIBLE?
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HOW TO FALL OUT OF LOVE
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STORYTIME: MY MILLIONAIRE SUB
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FIRST DATE 101
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TIME TO QUIT DATING APPS?
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DOMINATING YOUR HUSBAND WITH KATHERINE RYAN
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*SEASON 1 FINALE* IN CONVERSATION WITH: MISTRESS MARLEY
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THE BENEFITS OF BEING SINGLE
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ACCEPTING GENEROSITY FROM MEN?
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WOMEN OF THE ZODIAC
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SEXUAL DISCIPLINE
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HOLDING SPACE FOR RAGE
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LOANING A MAN MONEY?
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RAISING YOUR SELF-ESTEEM WHILE DATING
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ASKING FOR TOO MUCH OR ASKING THE WRONG MAN?
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*SPECIAL ANNOUNCEMENT!*
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SO YOU CAUGHT HIM LYING...
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BUT WHAT ABOUT LOVE?
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WHY YOUR BOUNDARIES AREN'T WORKING
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SO YOU FUCKED HIM TOO SOON...NOW WHAT?
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COMPROMISE VS SETTLING
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IS FALLING IN LOVE HOLDING YOU BACK?
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CONTROLLING YOUR SEXUAL URGES
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TRAPPED IN THE TALKING STAGE?
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BECOMING MORE SAVAGE!
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OBSESSION VS DEVOTION
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CONTROLLING YOUR EMOTIONS
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IS THAT MAN FETISHISING YOU?
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STAYING GROUNDED WHILE STANDING YOUR GROUND
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SO HE'S COME BACK...NOW WHAT?
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MEN OF THE ZODIAC...
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IS THAT MAN JEALOUS OF YOU?
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MAKING THE FIRST MOVE?
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MANIFESTING A MAN?
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FOCUSED ON THE WRONG VALUES?
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THE FALLACY OF THE FRIENDZONE
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REVENGE & REPARATIONS
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CUTTING OFF YOUR FRIENDS BUT KEEPING YOUR BOYFRIEND?
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INSTINCTS VS IMPULSES
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THE PARADOX OF PEOPLE-PLEASING
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DESPERATION IN DATING...
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DO YOU WANT 'CLOSURE' OR CONTROL?
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REASONS TO LEAVE THAT MAN
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FROM LOVEBOMBING TO LOW-BALLING
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IS HE 'MR RIGHT' OR MR RIGHT NOW?
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NEGOTIATING YOUR NEEDS
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DISCERNMENT ON DATING APPS
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EMOTIONAL EROSION: THE TOLL MEN TAKE ON US
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THINGS I'VE CHANGED MY MIND ON...
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COME GET ME WHEN YOU'VE GOT YOUR SHIT TOGETHER!
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TO BLOCK? OR NOT TO BLOCK?
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ROMANCE IN A RECESSION?
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I'M NOT YOUR GIRLFRIEND, I'M YOUR GODDESS.
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SO IS HE BUSY OR IS HE BORED OF YOU?
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WELCOME TO THE SLUMFLOWER HOUR!
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