SCOUT· 53%40m·2026-09-10·Self DevelopmentGIRL, SLOW DOWN...
Do you have a tendency to rush things with men? Do you find that things tend to start intensely then burn out fast? Does long distance really deserve the bad rep it gets? In this episode, Chidera recounts her experience being long distance with a guy she met on a dating reality show - and why distance in relationships…
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“As a proud Black man, I find it sad to see some Black women feeling they need to wear long, straight wigs and weaves, heavy makeup and false eyelashes in what seems like an attempt to conform to a European standard of beauty. I can’t help b…”
“Her followers seem to be here for one reason, and that's to hate on men. The contradictions, hypocrisy and lack of real life experience appear to be irrelevant to them. They’re not here to question what she says, they’re here to reinforce t…”
“Doing all this for a man to make him stay interested in you... I'll pass on this particular subject :/ It feels degrading to even consider doing the '10 stroke' thingy lol. But using distance and limiting access, 100% agree.”
“She was fighting over a man on that show”
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