SCOUT· 37%23m·2026-10-15·Relationships#285: How to Respond to Inconsistency and Mixed Messages
Pre-order my book, The Secure Self Being on the receiving end of someone's inconsistent behaviour and mixed messages is a familiar experience for many people with anxious attachment patterns. And yet, the ways we habitually respond — by trying to solve the puzzle, gather information, and do whatever we can to not make…
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