SCOUT· 59%17m·2026-08-09·Self DevelopmentDating Expert: Why You Should Stop Chasing 'THE ONE' | Logan Ury
You don't need to find the right person. You need to stop looking for the spark. In this clip, Logan Ury and Jay Shetty break down the three dating tendencies the romanticizer, the maximizer and the hesitator and why almost nobody can spot their own. Logan argues that most people have the math backwards. They think…
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“This woman is a true dating expert genius. I saw another comment say 'reciprocating effort'. That's a big one I have said recently with someone I am dating. I don't have high expectations in the beginning but the one thing I do expect is th…”
“The most important relationship you will ever have is with yourself. If you don't have a good, healthy, relationship with yourself you will never find a relationship worth having. All that love, kindness, tenderness, trust and hope you wish…”
“Very good points. I feel like I’m ready to date again. My close friend told me about the slow burn. Hearing it again just confirms she had good advice.”
“This is why dating apps have a high failure rate. Paradox of Choice. People swiping to infinity never truly getting to know ONE person.”
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