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U Up?
Betches Media
U Up? is the definitive modern dating podcast presented by Betches co-founder Jordana Abraham and comedian Jared Freid, where they discuss their take on the ebbs and flows of the crazy dating world we live in. From interpreting dating app interactions and weird sexual encounters, to defining the relationship and…
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What Do Men Actually Want on Their Wedding Night?
U Up? · 45m

Jordana Is Looking for a New Sister-in-Law!
U Up? · 1h 01m

How to Survive Wedding Season Alone
U Up? · 43m

The Situationship Trap Nobody Talks About
U Up? · 1h 21m

Does Cheating Justify Public Humiliation?
U Up? · 38m

Would You Date Someone Who Sees Their Ex Every Month?
U Up? · 1h 21m

He Emotionally Cheated. Is That Enough for Divorce?
U Up? · 51m

Five Dates, No Kiss. Now What?
U Up? · 1h 19m

Does Right Person, Wrong Time Exist?
U Up? · 33m

My GF Is a Phillies Fan and She Won't Shuttap About It
U Up? · 1h 32m

Is Fourth Of July The Best Weekend To Meet Someone?
U Up? · 49m

Should Married People Reply To Exes?
U Up? · 1h 28m

Is Using ChatGPT For Relationship Advice A Red Flag?
U Up? · 30m

How Do I Stop Getting Attached So Fast?
U Up? · 1h 19m

Should You Tell Dates You're on a GLP-1?
U Up? · 40m

My Fiancé Is Cheating Through The Notes App!
U Up? · 1h 22m

Would You Date a Man Who Had Four Kids Via Surrogacy?
U Up? · 42m

My Boyfriend's Side Hustle Is Ruining Our Relationship
U Up? · 1h 28m

Why is My Ex-Fiancé's Profile Picture My Dog?!
U Up? · 53m

Does He Just Want a Wife?
U Up? · 1h 38m

Bumble’s New AI Matchmaker “Bumblebee” Explained
U Up? · 53m

Can Someone Truly Change After Cheating?
U Up? · 1h 33m

Dr. Orna On The Biggest Mistake Couples Make
U Up? · 49m

Should You Tell Your Ex You’re Pregnant?
U Up? · 1h 15m

Married a Gay Man… And We’re Completely Monogamous ft I Married a Gay Man
U Up? · 50m

Is a Breakup Revenge Post Ever Okay?
U Up? · 1h 35m

He Won’t Go To Therapy But Says I’m the Problem
U Up? · 53m

The “Girl You Don’t Need to Worry About” Problem
U Up? · 1h 25m

Why Hot Takes Are Ruining Dating Advice ft. Dear Shandy
U Up? · 45m

Ryan Seacrest’s Dating Red Flags Make No Sense
U Up? · 1h 13m

Should You DM the Girlfriend If You’re the Other Woman?
U Up? · 46m

He Matched With Me… And My Brother! A Dating App Nightmare
U Up? · 56m

What’s the Right Way to Approach Someone IRL?
U Up? · 58m

The Moment His TikTok Fame Ruined the Date
U Up? · 1h 30m

My Friend & My Ex Are Hooking Up!
U Up? · 58m

Why Situationships Hurt More Than Breakups
U Up? · 1h 33m

Follow These Rules For Meeting The Family
U Up? · 36m

What Changes In A Relationship After Kids?
U Up? · 1h 19m

My Partner Makes Me Feel Stupid… Now What? ft Emma Willmann
U Up? · 49m

I Dumped Him in Public So He “Wouldn’t Make a Scene” ft Tiff Baira
U Up? · 1h 15m

What Are the Rules of an Open Relationship? ft Ashley Gavin
U Up? · 41m

Is “Right Person, Wrong Time” Actually Real? ft Logan Ury
U Up? · 1h 23m

I Love My Boyfriend But I’m Scared To Move In Together
U Up? · 41m

The Silent Relationship Killer you CAN Avoid ft Aleen Dreksler
U Up? · 1h 16m

Is He Avoiding Sex On Purpose? ft Dr. Naomi
U Up? · 46m

Would You Date Someone With 2 Boyfriends? ft Bob The Drag Queen
U Up? · 1h 16m

Should You Break Up Over Bad Kissing?
U Up? · 42m

Is A 14 Year Age Gap Too Much? ft Yamaneika Saunders
U Up? · 59m

He Cheated for Almost a Year — How She Finally Found Out
U Up? · 53m

He Fights Dirty With His Family—Will He With Me? ft Matteo Lane
U Up? · 1h 16m

Why Dating Feels So Negative Right Now ft. Matchmaker Maria
U Up? · 53m

When Body Image Becomes a Dating Issue ft. Sami Sage - Co Founder of Betches
U Up? · 1h 26m

He Dumped Me Because Of My Music Taste?!
U Up? · 51m

Why Money Conversations Matter Early in Dating ft Vivian Tu
U Up? · 59m

He’s 24, I’m 37 - Can We Really Be In Love?
U Up? · 38m

I Can’t Stop Comparing Myself to His Ex!
U Up? · 1h 09m

Coming Out After Kids ft Chris Appleton
U Up? · 43m

My Ex Wants Our Dog Back
U Up? · 1h 15m

How to Spot Swinger Signals
U Up? · 43m

We're Engaged, So Why Am I Still Hidden on His Socials?
U Up? · 1h 11m

Would You Date Someone With Immature Friends?
U Up? · 54m

Is Publicly Exposing Cheaters Wrong?
U Up? · 1h 25m

The Biggest Dating Week of the Year
U Up? · 43m

New Year, New Dating Rules
U Up? · 1h 14m

Is Saying Your Dog is your Kid an Ick?
U Up? · 41m

Is Christmas A Relationship Test?
U Up? · 1h 24m

Is a Boudoir Shoot As Christmas Present a Good Gift?
U Up? · 39m

Who Covers Travel Costs After a Breakup?
U Up? · 1h 15m

Why Your Ex’s Instagram Still Messes With Your Head
U Up? · 41m

How Old Is Too Old To Be Gaming?
U Up? · 1h 33m

Will Jeff Bezos and Lauren Sánchez's Relationship Survive 2026?
U Up? · 50m

When Is Too Early To Reveal A Kink?
U Up? · 1h 31m

Should I Break Up Before or After the Holidays?
U Up? · 34m

How to Answer ‘Why Are You Still Single?’
U Up? · 1h 12m

How Do I Navigate My New Polyamorous Relationship?
U Up? · 1h 20m

Jennifer Lawrence’s Secret TikTok a Red Flag?
U Up? · 1h 17m

8 Years of U Up? Our Wildest and Most Iconic Moments!
U Up? · 1h 19m

Is Saying 'Boyfriend' Cringe?
U Up? · 1h 25m

Dating Titles: Exclusive vs Boyfriend
U Up? · 31m

How to Know You’re Ready to Move In
U Up? · 1h 17m

Did Selena Gomez and Benny Blanco Win Halloween?
U Up? · 47m

Halloween Reveals Your True Relationship Status
U Up? · 1h 19m

Have These Dating Trends Gone Too Far?
U Up? · 49m

Mom Kisses Son, Major Ick
U Up? · 1h 28m

Is the Pen Pal Dating Trend Back?
U Up? · 39m

How To Date Someone Outside Your Faith
U Up? · 1h 15m

You’ve Got Mail: The OG of Online Dating
U Up? · 1h 00m

When Is the Right Time to Share Your Number?
U Up? · 1h 32m

It's Taylor Swift & Mean Girls Day!
U Up? · 31m

30 Taylor Swift Shows Later… Red Flag?
U Up? · 1h 22m

Is Selena Gomez “Shrekking”?
U Up? · 48m

How to Date Your Roommate
U Up? · 1h 33m

I Spoke to My Partner’s Mistress & This Is What She Told Me ft Dateable Podcast
U Up? · 46m

Taylor & Travis Got Engaged, Now You’re Panicking
U Up? · 1h 28m

Is It Rude to Ask For a Plus One?
U Up? · 38m

How to Survive a Sports-Obsessed Partner
U Up? · 1h 31m

Are Men Wearing Shoe Lifts an Ick?
U Up? · 43m

Decoding Weird Boyfriend Habits
U Up? · 1h 30m

How to Get Deep Without Scaring Your Date ft. Kat Sadler
U Up? · 33m

How To Date On A Budget
U Up? · 1h 16m

Spotting the Lies Before You Swipe ft. Kamie Crawford
U Up? · 48m

Am I Dating A Disney Adult?
U Up? · 1h 20m

Whitney Cummings Breaks Down Toxic Behavior & Real Friendships
U Up? · 1h 09m

How to Date Intentionally When No One Else Is
U Up? · 1h 22m

Long-Distance Love or Just Bad Timing?
U Up? · 46m

How To Clean Up Your Feed After a Breakup
U Up? · 1h 20m

Does 'The Materialists' Hate Matchmakers?
U Up? · 1h 07m

Is It Okay to Date Your Brother’s Best Friend?
U Up? · 1h 10m

Too Soon to Reveal Feelings?
U Up? · 31m

Is Going Out Alone a Red Flag?
U Up? · 1h 22m

How Long Is Too Long to Be Single? ft. Gals on the Go
U Up? · 44m

He Calls His Mom Every Night?!
U Up? · 1h 16m

Who Really Deserves an Apology After a Breakup? ft. Atsuko Okatsuka
U Up? · 49m

Can Weight Gain Change Your Relationship?
U Up? · 1h 23m

Are You Settling or Leveling Up?
U Up? · 52m

Banned From Hinge for Ending It After Date 3
U Up? · 1h 20m

The Rom-Com That Could Never Be Made Today
U Up? · 49m

Is LinkedIn the New Dating App?
U Up? · 1h 22m

Do You Really Need Instagram to Date?
U Up? · 44m

How to Nail the First Date Look
U Up? · 1h 23m

Hinge Warned Me She Was a Scammer!
U Up? · 40m

Speed Dating Tips You Need to Know for a Second Date!
U Up? · 1h 34m

Tired of the Apps? Try This Summer Challenge
U Up? · 26m

His Mom Helped Him Break Up!
U Up? · 1h 18m

Where Are All the Eligible Men?
U Up? · 34m

Divorce Drama: Should the Side Piece Pay?
U Up? · 1h 16m

Matchmaker's Guide to 'The One' ft. Matchmaker Maria
U Up? · 1h 10m

Do First-Date Kisses Ruin Long-Term Potential?
U Up? · 59m

Are West Village TikTok Girls Ruining NYC?
U Up? · 29m

Can You Judge a Date by Their Scent?
U Up? · 1h 11m

Is It Chemistry or Friendship? Exploring New Relationships with Maren Morris
U Up? · 35m

Can You Be Jobless AND Dateable?
U Up? · 1h 16m

Is My Honesty Driving People Away?
U Up? · 33m

Can I Be In Love Without Being In Lust?
U Up? · 1h 14m

I Stole My Exes Baby Name, AITA?
U Up? · 43m

He Hardly Says 'I Love You'... Should I Be Worried?
U Up? · 1h 11m

Jay Shetty Pep Talks the Group Chat
U Up? · 54m

How Do I Tell My BF He Has Bad Breath?
U Up? · 1h 04m

Can You Date Outside Your Socioeconomic Status? ft. Dr. Jaimie Glick
U Up? · 34m

How To Ask Your Friends To Set You Up
U Up? · 1h 01m

Peloton, Playbills & Petty Moves with Cody Rigsby & Andrew Chappelle
U Up? · 32m

Chelsea Handler Ghosted by Andrew Cuomo?!
U Up? · 56m

When Should You Archive A Pic Of Your Ex?
U Up? · 34m

Why Won't Men Approach Women Anymore?
U Up? · 1h 08m

How To Clean Up Your Life ft. Summer Rose
U Up? · 51m

When Is It Too Soon to Post About Someone?
U Up? · 1h 18m

I Exposed My Cheating Ex
U Up? · 38m

My Ex’s New Girlfriend Moved In Next Door
U Up? · 1h 35m

I Gave Him Everything...Then He Dumped Me Ft. Spritely
U Up? · 1h 12m

How Your Dating Profile Is Keeping You Single
U Up? · 1h 23m

How To Manage Dating an Over-Texter
U Up? · 42m

Make a Follow-Up Date or F*ck Off
U Up? · 1h 19m

I Got Dumped The Day After Our Anniversary
U Up? · 40m

When Does A Partner’s Joke Go Too Far?
U Up? · 1h 14m

What It’s Really Like in the Netflix’s "Love is Blind" Pods
U Up? · 49m

Can I Spend Valentine’s Day With My Situationship? (Lightning Round Special)
U Up? · 1h 08m

Should I Go No Contact With My Ex?
U Up? · 1h 09m

Is My Buff Body Scaring Away Men?
U Up? · 32m

Why Won’t My Partner Initiate Sex?
U Up? · 1h 05m

Bachelor Blindside: Matt James & Rachael Kirkconnell Split
U Up? · 38m

How Do I Approach My Gym Crush?
U Up? · 1h 00m

If Carrie Bradshaw Is The Worst, So Are You
U Up? · 39m

Avoidant Discarding: The New Ghosting?
U Up? · 1h 06m

Do I Want A LDR For The Wrong Reasons?
U Up? · 34m

Casual Dating, Demanding Careers And Dating In A New City
U Up? · 1h 02m

How Can The Let Them Theory Help Me? ft. Mel Robbins
U Up? · 51m

Did I “Win” The Breakup?
U Up? · 1h 13m

Am I Really Undateable? Ft. Logan Ury
U Up? · 1h 04m

Spot Red Flags & Avoid Bad Dates In 2025
U Up? · 1h 05m

How Soon Should I Ask Their Salary? ft. Ramit Sethi
U Up? · 53m

Will Cheating Karma Catch Me In My Next Relationship?
U Up? · 1h 07m

What Will 2025 Bring My Zodiac Sign? ft. Kelley Knight
U Up? · 1h 01m

How Do I Date While I’m Home For The Holidays?
U Up? · 1h 25m

Dating Pulse Check: Should I Invest Or Move On?
U Up? · 37m

Is It Too Early To Be Annoyed With The Person You’re Dating?
U Up? · 1h 07m

Jared Saw His Soulmate And Now He’s Scared
U Up? · 35m

Post-Date Confusion And Why We’re Happy For Selena Gomez
U Up? · 1h 10m

Modern Dating: Why ChatGPT Should Edit Your Breakup Text
U Up? · 50m

Lightning Round: Navigating The Holidays With A SO
U Up? · 1h 08m

Cuffing Season: Signs Of Casual VS Committed
U Up? · 47m

Cuffing Season, Casual Sex And Dating Complications
U Up? · 1h 13m

The Seven-Year Itch: The Anniversary Episode
U Up? · 53m

Is The "Single Mindset" In A Relationship Real?
U Up? · 1h 21m

Politics, Dog Poop, and Whiskey Dick
U Up? · 36m

Should I Ask My Hot Doctor Out?
U Up? · 1h 13m

Is It Romantic Or Creepy To Track Down An Old Match?
U Up? · 38m

Halloween Hookups & Costume Red Flags
U Up? · 1h 22m

My Boyfriend Loves To Vape And I Hate It
U Up? · 40m

Why Do My Dates Keep Canceling On Me?
U Up? · 1h 29m

Is It Weird That My Boyfriend Doesn’t Post Me?
U Up? · 28m

I Hate When Other Women Compliment My Fiancé
U Up? · 1h 14m

My BF Is Divorced And Still Healing
U Up? · 25m

Rematching On The Apps & Keeping Exes Around
U Up? · 1h 12m

Should I Take Him Back Now That He’s In Therapy?
U Up? · 32m

The Best And Worst Cities To Date In 2024
U Up? · 1h 22m

Just Because You Got Engaged Doesn’t Mean You Should Get Married
U Up? · 40m

Why Does My BF’s Stability Turn Me Off?
U Up? · 1h 22m

Heather Graham's Affirmations Helped Me Find A Husband ft. Heather Graham
U Up? · 49m

I’m Turning Into My BF’s Mom And I Hate It
U Up? · 1h 21m

Is Sexual Compatibility A Valid Reason To Break Up?
U Up? · 48m

Is He Really Busy Or Is It Just An Excuse To Pull Away?
U Up? · 1h 21m

I’ve Been Engaged Three Times, Why Can’t I Get It Right?
U Up? · 47m

How Honest Should I Be With My Date?
U Up? · 1h 16m

How Do I Deal With A Crush While My Boyfriend Is Long Distance?
U Up? · 31m

Is A Bad Weekend Enough To Break Up With My Boyfriend?
U Up? · 49m

Instagram Breakups & Girl Code For Friends' Exes ft. Kaitlyn Bristowe
U Up? · 58m

Lightning Round: How To Deal With A Football Obsessed Partner
U Up? · 59m

Compromise Is For Couples
U Up? · 32m

The Pros And (Mostly) Cons Of Going On A Dating Show
U Up? · 1h 13m

My BF’s Sense Of Humor Gave Me The Ick
U Up? · 35m

How Do I Talk To My SO About Grief? ft. Dr. Naomi Bernstein
U Up? · 1h 14m

Why Do Exes Compliment You During A Breakup?
U Up? · 34m

Easy Ways To Let Your Date Know You Like Them
U Up? · 1h 12m

Don’t Skip This Step When You Delete Your Dating Apps
U Up? · 29m

Is It My Responsibility To Train My BF?
U Up? · 1h 13m

Ho Phase Appreciation And A Realistic Look At Married Life ft. The LadyGang
U Up? · 56m

Why Love Island’s Casa Amor Isn’t A Real World Risk
U Up? · 1h 25m

The Urge To Win The Breakup
U Up? · 45m

It’s OK To Lie On Dating Apps Sometimes
U Up? · 1h 22m

How To Be A Better Dating Consumer Of Men
U Up? · 36m

The Economics of Dating
U Up? · 1h 28m

I Dated Like It Was A Job ft. Rachel Feinstein
U Up? · 46m

Am I Being Too Emotionally Slutty For My Partner?
U Up? · 1h 13m

I Had A Meet-Cute With A Man In Finance
U Up? · 1h 12m

My Guy Friend Confessed His Feelings, So I Ghosted Him
U Up? · 1h 05m

The Fine Print Of #DatingTok Advice
U Up? · 23m

Coming To Terms With Your Kinda-Ship
U Up? · 1h 31m

My Mom Is In Her Divorced Era. How Can I Help Her Date?
U Up? · 57m

I Love My BF, But He Hates My Dog
U Up? · 1h 16m

Love, Limerence, And Cop Outs ft. Olivia O’Brien
U Up? · 39m

They Always Come Back For The Wrong Reasons
U Up? · 1h 11m

Should I Tone Down My Personality To Attract More Dates? ft. Emma Willmann
U Up? · 53m

The Curse Of The Cool Girl
U Up? · 1h 10m

Why Being Mad About A Wasted Relationship Isn’t Helping You
U Up? · 26m

A Friends-To-Lovers Story Gone Wrong
U Up? · 1h 04m

My Husband's Ex Is Being Petty. Can I Be Pettier?
U Up? · 48m

Can I Turn My Friend-To-Lover Back Into A Friend?
U Up? · 1h 07m

Why The “When You Know, You Know” Spark Might Be Missing ft. Matthew Hussey
U Up? · 1h 13m

Could A 'Certified Lover Boy' Ever Commit?
U Up? · 1h 16m

The Situationship Cycle ft. Dulcé Sloan
U Up? · 38m

Where Does A Digital Affair Fall On The Cheating Scale?
U Up? · 1h 39m

Can I Force A Closure Conversation After A Breakup?
U Up? · 41m

I Took My Ex Back and He Dumped Me—Again!
U Up? · 1h 38m

Should It Matter That My BF’s Mom Dislikes Me?
U Up? · 35m

Are Some Women Doomed To Be Alone Forever?
U Up? · 1h 28m

Can You Be Partners In Love And Business? ft. Nick and Elyse Oleksak
U Up? · 43m

Is It Just Me Or Is The Dating Pool Polluted?
U Up? · 1h 34m

Feng Shui, Dating Intentions, & Jared’s Sh*tty Energy ft. Jeannette Cieszykowski
U Up? · 52m

What Is The Right Way To Compliment A Man?
U Up? · 1h 31m

Erotic Energy, Rethinking Infidelity, And Psychotherapy ft. Esther Perel
U Up? · 1h 04m

The Worst Kind Of Rematch on Hinge
U Up? · 1h 05m

A Message To Cheaters
U Up? · 41m

AITA For Thinking You’re Full Of Sh*t?
U Up? · 1h 28m

SOS: I've Invested Too Much In A Dead-End Situationship To Walk Away
U Up? · 49m

If It’s Giving Boyfriend, Just Say That
U Up? · 1h 23m

Is Jared Just Like The Bachelor? ft. Joey Graziadei
U Up? · 58m

When To Walk Away From The Person You’re Dating
U Up? · 1h 22m

How To Break Up Like A Gentleman
U Up? · 29m

Was This A Red Flag Or Is My Internalized Homophobia Showing?
U Up? · 1h 11m

I Hate My BF’s Therapist
U Up? · 30m

V-Day, TikTok Backlash, And Where The Single Men Are
U Up? · 1h 38m

Bland DMs: Why You Might Be The Problem
U Up? · 44m

Get Pookie TikTok Away From Us
U Up? · 1h 14m

Icks Are Ruining Dating ft. Jay Shetty
U Up? · 49m

Failures Make You A Better Dater
U Up? · 1h 25m

SOS: Does My Ex Want Me Back Or Is She Messing Around?
U Up? · 52m

What’s Wrong With Settling?
U Up? · 1h 18m

The Hard Truth About Getting “The Ick”
U Up? · 39m

How Much Does Your Past Impact Your Dating Future?
U Up? · 1h 41m

Beware Of Breakup January
U Up? · 34m

Are You Dating An Aidan Or A Mr. Big?
U Up? · 1h 20m

How I Got Engaged After 6 Months Of Dating ft. Rosebud Baker
U Up? · 45m

Did Jared Find Love On His Blind Date?
U Up? · 1h 30m

Rizz, Sober Dates, And Dating In 2024
U Up? · 47m

It’s The Week Of Nothingness
U Up? · 1h 09m

Toxic Exes, Moms, And Ruining Christmas
U Up? · 36m

Who Won The Date With Jared?
U Up? · 1h 27m

Rejections Are Good For You
U Up? · 35m

The Problem With Playing It Cool
U Up? · 1h 39m

Should I Be Cleaning My Boyfriend’s Apartment?
U Up? · 46m

You Want To Be The Prize, Not The Pick Me
U Up? · 1h 28m

Crystals, Spells, And WTF Is Up With Jared ft. Kelley Knight
U Up? · 1h 02m

Your Words Are Like Spells: Cheating, Standards, and Situationships
U Up? · 1h 16m

The Love Of Your Life Is A Teammate, Not A Goalpost Ft. Vir Das
U Up? · 40m

‘Tis The Season For Hometown Hookups
U Up? · 1h 21m

SOS: Insecurities Are Cockblocking My Dating Life
U Up? · 30m

Thanksgiving Prep: Is It Too Early To Invite My SO?
U Up? · 1h 26m

6 Years, 500 Episodes, And More Dating To Solve
U Up? · 57m

When The Honeymoon Phase Ends, What’s The Next Step?
U Up? · 1h 33m

Jared VS Jorge: Is Jared Really 10% Away From All Men?
U Up? · 55m

Is Caspering The New Ghosting? (Debating This Year’s Spookiest New Dating Terms)
U Up? · 1h 21m

How Honest Should You Be During A Breakup? Ft. Sam Morril
U Up? · 56m

Dating Is So Much Easier Now That I’m Married
U Up? · 1h 09m

Dating When You Don’t Want Kids ft. Girls Gotta Eat
U Up? · 45m

The Problem With Dating Dog People
U Up? · 59m

It’s Not Your ADHD, You’ve Got Dating App Fatigue
U Up? · 27m

Bumble’s New Update: Isn't This Just “Love Is Blind”?
U Up? · 1h 16m

37, Single & Gay ft. Emma Willmann
U Up? · 46m

Why Does My BF Keep Backing Out Of Plans?
U Up? · 1h 09m

My Interracial Relationship Isn’t An Insult ft. Nimesh Patel
U Up? · 46m
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