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Tell Me Something Messy with Brandon Kyle Goodman

Brandon Kyle Goodman

Tell Me Something Messy is your unfiltered companion for relationships, adulting, and defeating shame! Each week, writer and comedian Brandon Kyle Goodman invites listeners (aka Messy Mob) to leave perfectionism at the door and wade into the wonderfully unhinged world of dating, personal growth, and getting…

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Tell Me Something Messy with Brandon Kyle Goodman

Caregiver Burnout, Aging Parents & Being Chosen to Break Generational Curses w/ "Ghosts" Star Danielle Pinnock

The 'Love Island" Toxic Loop and America's Rigged Votes: A Love Island USA Recap PLUS Anna Konkle on Estrangement, Beyoncé, and Aging

Going No-Contact, Emotional Incest & Becoming "The Sane One," w/ Emmy-nom Anna Konkle

NeNe Leakes' Return, Oprah on Whitney and We're So Done with KC from Love Island! Plus: Dr. Josh on Penis Filler

Introducing Waking Up With Ryan: PROUD TO BE YOU

"You Can Get Filler Where?!": STIs, PrEP & Queer Sexual Health w/ Dr. Joshua Gonzalez & Devere Rogers

"Girth Check!": Casa Amor Chaos, Zryce Core, and Threesome Commandments with Justin Sylvester of Yestergays

"Gay Men Are Like Vampires": Second Adolescence, Desirability Abroad and Juneteenth w/ Justin Sylvester

A Pride Weekend Oopsie, Love Island's Next Star, Why Queer Parties Hit Different & Los Angeles' Nithya Raman on the Leak That Changed Everyt

Dog Owners Are Narcissists, Bathhouse Confessions & Calling Our Moms—The Messiest Pride Crossover w/ RuPaul's Drag Race Winner Yvie Oddly an

Pride Hangover with Taylor Tomlinson: Carmela Soprano, Don't Sleep on J. Lo Movies, and Why Winning Still Won't Fix You —Messy Bonus

The 'Toy Story' Hookup, Pick-Me Burnout & Inner Child Healing w/ Taylor Tomlinson

Your Bestie's Ex Is NOT The One, Hun—Summer House Reunion, Love Island Begins, Trump's Loser Convention, and Tony Award-winning Sarah Jones

I Cheated on Every Partner—With Their Potential: Love, Rest & Workaholism w/ Tony Award-Winning Sarah Jones

AI Boyfriends Are Cheating & Spontaneous Sex Is Overrated — Messy Bonus

100 Ejaculations, One Grumpy Pussy & the Orgasm Formula Nobody Taught You w/ Dr. Vanessa Marin

Friendship Breakups Need Couples Therapy Too — Pam Grier, Cheyenne Bryant & More

Patriarchy Is History’s Biggest C*ck Block w/ Liz Plank

Kevin Hart’s Netflix Roast, Jamie Foxx & Why Interracial Dating Still Has Us Talking

God Is Freaky: Bible Stories, Sober Sex & Ancestral Mess w/ Curly Velasquez

Megan Thee Stallion, Dr. Cheyenne Bryant & the Vending Machine Hustle

Don’t Tell Me You Never Liked Him: Hard Truths, Fear of Closeness & Pulling Up for Your People w/ Lyo Reneau

REBROADCAST: Relationships Don't Make You Whole w/ Kyle June Williams & nicHi Douglas

MESSY BONUS: Watch More Movies

She Oiled My Butt and Wished She Was Half Black

MESSY BONUS: Speaking Up For Yourself

Mom Ideology w/ Nithya Raman

MESSY BONUS: Being A Parent

Face Lickers, First Kisses & Learning You’re an Adult w/ Bernadette Beck

MESSY BONUS: A casual encounter with the... Klan

Scams, One Night Stands, and White People w/ Laci Mosley

MESSY BONUS: A Playdough Bottom

My Mom Broke My Heart, My Ex Made It Worse, and Sister Act 2 Saved Me

MESSY BONUS: The Oscars?

The 30s Reckoning: When Who You Were No Longer Fits w/ Foster Wilson and Cesar Cardona

MESSY BONUS: Everywhere Is Queer

Clarity Is Sexy: First Love Breakups, Family Boundaries & Saying It Plainly w/ Charlie Sprinkman

MESSY BONUS: Attachment Styles

Closure Is a Scam: Dating Is Data, Not a Moral Failing w/ Sabrina Zohar

MESSY BONUS: When You Need to Go On a Tangent

Navigating the Grief of a Parent, Supporting a Grieving Friend, & What Six Years of Celibacy Taught Me w/ VINCINT

MESSY BONUS: The Musical Episode

How to Deal With Jealousy in Open Relationships & Become A Better Partner w/ Scott Evans

MESSY BONUS: The Gosh Darn Apps

Dating After Gender Transition: Finding Love, Friendship, and Self-Worth with Alexis Bevels and Darby Lynn Cartwright

MESSY BONUS: Trixie Cut Off A Man's Eyebrow

Makeup Counters, Hooking Up in Drag, and TikTok Snake Churches with Trixie Mattel

MESSY BONUS: Brandon's Villain Arc

Decentering the Male Gaze: How to Be Attractive for Yourself and Unlearn Eurocentric Beauty Standards w/ Atsuko Okatsuka

MESSY BONUS: Dating With Intention

What to Do If You’re Ghosted, Calling Out Abuse in a Friend’s Relationship, and Setting Healthy Boundaries w/ Nina Parker

MESSY BONUS: Dealing With The Butt & Being Fired

How to Be a Confident Dominant Partner in the Bedroom, Navigate a Friend’s Addiction, and Support Sobriety w/ Brian Rubin-Sowers and Judson

MESSY BONUS: Dressing As Cartoon Characters

Normalizing Intimacy Conversations w/ Jessica Stahl

MESSY BONUS: A Gay Anomaly

Through The Storm w/ Jordan E. Cooper

MESSY BONUS: This Thanksgiving, I Was The Turkey

The Journey is The Goal w/ Lío Mehiel

MESSY BONUS: Being the Poster Child of HIV

Thriving with HIV! w/ Hernando Umana

MESSY BONUS: Give Me A Minute

You're A Divorcee Who Doesn't Believe In God w/ Franchesca Ramsey

MESSY BONUS: Let Your Uncle Kidnap You

Yes Ma'am w/ Jay Jurden

MESSY BONUS: There's A Line With Family

Non-Practicing Straight Homosexuals w/ Durand Bernarr

MESSY BONUS: Reflecting On Breakdowns

Your Joy & Your Sacred Rage w/ Sophia Bush

This Is How I Get Free w/ Lena Waithe

MESSY BONUS: Who Puts Your Heart At Ease?

Sometimes Love Isn’t Broken, It’s Just Not Enough w/ Devere Rogers

MESSY BONUS: This Is What Freedom Looks Like

Resentment, Environment, and the Blueprint for Great Sex w/ Erica Chidi

How Facing Mortality Inspires Better Art w/ Abbi Jacobson

I Consented But He Roofied Me Anyway - Part 3

I Consented But He Roofied Me Anyway - Part 2

I Consented But He Roofied Me Anyway - Part 1

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