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LOVERS by Shan
LOVERS by shan
LOVERS by Shan is an education-first space where listeners come to better understand their own intimate lives through the life lessons and expertise of others. Shan Boodram’s mission is to empower everyone to be their own intimacy expert in the bedroom and beyond by treating guests of the podcast as educators in their…
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Romantic Love Is the Most Narrow Form of Love ft. Kendrick Sampson
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I'm (Still) Concerned About Our Love, Pt. 3
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He's Gay. She's a Lesbian. They're In a Co-Parenting Arrangement With Their Son
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Criticism Has No Place in a Relationship ft. The Gottmans
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The Lengths One Catfish Went to Avoid Getting Caught
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Listen Again: Don’t Have Sex With Someone If You Both Can’t Do THIS ft. Lena Waithe
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Listen Again: I Lost My Sex Drive Because He Never Did THIS ft. Cree Summer
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If There Was a Female Version of “Viagra”, Would You Take It?
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Naomi Sharon: Learning About OCD Taught Me Why I Can't Let Go
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Does Unrequited Love Mean the Love Wasn't Real? ft. Tanerélle
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I Embarrassed Him and We Had to Talk About It
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Stop Turning Me Into Inspiration Porn — Ericka Hart on Nasty Work
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Loving Someone Based on How They Present Is the Whole Problem
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The Most Intimate Thing a Man Can Do for His Family ft. Jared Brady & Jonathan Singletary
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How to Be in a Relationship Without One Foot Out the Door - Inayah on Going from Leaver to Lover
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He Cheated. Then He Had a Son. Here's What He Did Differently
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I'm Sorry.
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Part II: Finding Happily Ever After Without a Romantic Partner ft. Melyssa Ford
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Everyone Wants This Kind of Love… Until It Costs Them Something
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Is It Wrong to Still Want Attention if You’re in a Relationship ft. Lauren Morrison
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This Changes How You See Avoidantly Attached People ft. Dr. Amir Levine
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This Kama Sutra Secret About Hands Changes Everything
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The Year I Decided I’d Never Divorce My Husband
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I Spent Years Forcing Relationships… Here’s What I Learned ft. Affion Crockett
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The Secret to Attracting a Husband, Not Just a Boyfriend ft. Kamie Crawford
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I Thought I Wanted to Be a Trad Wife… I Was Wrong ft. Lisa Bilyeu
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Why “Normal” Sex Doesn’t Work for Many Black and Brown Women Ft. Aida Mariam Davis
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What Men Actually Think About Before They Propose ft. Mark Manson
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Are You Nicer to Strangers Than Your Partner ft. DeWanda Wise
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What If You Never Meet the One ft. Melyssa Ford
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Can Intimacy Survive Porn, Drinks and Phone Addictions? ft. Dr Anna Lembke
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Spinning the Block Doesn’t Work Without This ft. Jerrie Johnson and Dria Brown
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Do We Believe Her Now? | Abby De La Rosa Returns to Discuss Her Alternative Relationship
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What Men Risk When They Stay Quiet ft. Kier Gaines
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Rachel Lindsay’s Shocking Discovery About Intimacy After Divorce
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The Real Reason We Started an Open Relationship
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When Conflict Turns Lovers Into Exes ft. Touré
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Intimacy Started When This Secret Came to Light ft. Jonathan Van Ness
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Navigating Parenting Differences as Lovers
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Love Has Destroyed Me So Why Do I Keep Trying? ft Sabrina Claudio
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Seema Anand on Overcoming Shame with the Kama Sutra’s Secrets
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Sacred Sex For People Who Don't Believe ft. Tanerélle
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What My Autism Diagnosis Taught Me About Love and Feeling Safe ft. Chrisette Michele
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Is It Too Late to Become Who I Thought I’d Be? ft Chy Fontenette
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Should Relationships be THIS Hard? ft. Beleaf & Yvette Henry
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Could a Single Moment Be Controlling Your Love Story? Ft Andre Holland
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How Inner Child Work Can Save Your (love) Life featuring Lilly Singh
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How Jemele Hill is Fighting Back Against America’s #1 Sex Life Killers
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The Truth About Getting The Man I THOUGHT I Always Wanted ft. Rosa Acosta
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Am I Still Who You Want? Are You Becoming Who I Need? A Relationship Check-In + Free Guide ft Jared Brady
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My Mom Talked to Me About Sex, And It Made Me Rebel ft. Blair Imani
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What holds a relationship together when life falls apart ft Dr. Laura Berman
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Inside the Male Fantasy: The Surprising Request Men Keep Paying For ft. The Pink Parley
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He Had Multiple Lovers and I Was Good with Just Him. Alyson Stoner On Their Intro To Polyamory
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The Eartha Kitt Effect Why Women Are Happily Choosing the Single Life for Life
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No One Talks About How Hard Making Friends As An Adult Is ft. Krista Williams
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Is a Good Man Good Enough? ft. Miranda Rae Mayo
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Are They Your Type or Your Trauma Response ft. Anwar White
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What’s the Emotional Tax on Casual Sex? ft. Decisions Decisions
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Too Many of Us Are Living with High-Functioning Depression ft. Dr. Judith Joseph
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Kama Sutra Secrets Every Woman Deserves to Know ft. Seema Anand
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He Was Never Going To Commit And Here's Why ft. Duckwrth
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I Wanted My Man, Not the Sex: Tamsen Fadal on Losing Her Libido At the Worst Possible Time
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Go Where you are Celebrated, Not Just Tolerated ft. Kennedy Ryan
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Having the Sex I’d Want My Daughter to Expect with Xosha
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Jessie Woo Opens Up About Surviving Sexual Assault, Reclaiming Pleasure and Building Healthy Love After Trauma
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Alessia Cara Opens Up About How Death Anxiety Affects Her Relationships
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Raven-Symoné and Miranda on How Sleep Divorce Strengthened Their Marriage
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Cree Summer Opens Up About How Emotional Safety Reignited Her Sex Drive After 50
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Don't Waste Your Time With People Like This!
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B. Simone Opens Up About Putting God First, Chastity and Demisexuality
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Karamo Brown on Evolving Sexual and Emotional Needs Over Time
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Khadeen and Devale Ellis on Defying Gender Roles to Save Their Marriage
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Jessie Reyez on Why Boundaries Are a Form of Love
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Deepica Mutyala Breaks Down Dating as a Successful Woman and Manifesting a Relationship With Purpose
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Lena Waithe Reflects on Emotional Intimacy and Platonic Relationships
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Tika Sumpter Breaks Down What Sex Education Looks At Home
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Singer Mario Opens Up About Emotional Healing After Maternal Trauma
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Forget What You Thought You Knew About Good Sex and Start HERE
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Kerry Washington: We Are as Sick as Our Secrets
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Kelly Rowland on Sex, Kink, Divorce and Repressed Desires
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Ride Our Emotional Roller Coaster: The Concluding Episode of Lovers & Friends
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Get the Fairytale You Need - Despite What You Think You Want feat. Damona Hoffman
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If Someone Says I’m Too Feminine or Too Masculine, I Know We Won’t Work feat. Mal Wright
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A Therapist and Her Husband Chose To Be Childfree. Here's Why feat. Vanessa and Xander Marin
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If You Haven’t Found Your Go To Position, Try These from the Kama Sutra feat. Seema Anand
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Tonight's Conversation vs Lovers and Friends: Orgasm Gap and Relationships Being Mid
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Why Is ShxtsNGigs Dominating the Sex / Relationship Podcast Game?
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I Love Older Men, but I Regret Dating Them in My Twenties feat. Anna Akana
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No, THAT’S Not Normal! How Hormones Could Be Impacting Your Sex Life and Health
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Self Love: My Key to Not Being Blinded By Hurt and Constant Criticism
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I Understand Jada Pinkett Smith and Will's Relationship because of This
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I Never Stayed Past the Honeymoon Phase and Here’s Why feat. Brenden Durell
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How I Stopped Searching for Love in Lost People feat. Leah Lamarr
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Do Relationships Really Need To Be Hard Work? A Reality Check feat. Nina Westbrook
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CONFESSIONS FROM A SEX COACH FOR MEN ft. Alex Grendi
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An Uncommon Guide to the Kama Sutra (You'll Be Shocked By What We Found) feat. Seema Anand
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How to Stay Together When The World Around You Is Falling Apart
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What it REALLY Takes to Get in the Mood at the Same Time Ft. Elaine Welteroth & Jonathan Singletary
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This Is What Happens When You Marry Your Maybe feat. The Marriage Pact Couples
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The TRUTH About Freaky Women and Men Who Can’t Stay with Them feat. Ashley Cobb
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Do YOU Do These 5 Things? Find Out If You're A Freak Or Prude ft. Andrea Lewis and Glam Erotica
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Saggy Breasts, Strong Confidence- Embracing Ourselves Before S*x ft Jessie Paege
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Pointless Sex? The Truth About Not Orgasming Feat. Pour Minds
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Is SEX Ruined By OVERTHINKING? Tell the Truth, is it Pee? Is it Monogamy if We Have Threesomes? Your Questions Answered with Ricky Shucks
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Keke Palmer's Baby Mama Drama, Jonah Hill Gets Out Of Line with Boundaries, and Adam 22 Wants Outrage Over His Open Marriage
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From Being Flewed Out to Flying Solo ft Qimmah Russo
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Your F*ck Buddy Might be The One ft. Siffat Haider and Nish Samantray
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The Hidden Cost of Ungratefulness in Relationships feat. Dante Jones
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More Sex Does Not Make You Better in Bed, but THIS Will feat. Emily Morse
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If You're Not Paying the Bills, What ARE You Doing? Feat. Cocktales
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I Want You to Be Obsessed with Me - Raven Ross' Highs & Dangerous Lows Being a Hopeless Romantic
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This is What it Sounds Like When a Man Cries feat. Dom Gabriel
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Why Did He Suddenly Lose Interest In Sex? Feat. Drew Love
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Love At First Sight Almost Sabotaged My Marriage
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When a Man Submits to Her Success feat. Jade Novah and Devin Johnson
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Everything You Pray You Won't Have to Know About Infertility feat. Deja Riley's story
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Family Discussion: Sex, Aging and Our Relationship Dynamics feat. My Mom
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Losing Our Baby Broke Me, BUT I Never Told Her That feat. Mike Johnson
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Saving Our Relationship By Having an Open One feat. Bayleigh and Swaggy C
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Becky G Opens Up About Being Sick and Sick and Tired of Hating Herself
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I'm a Grown Ass Woman Woman Without Any Friends... feat. Krista from Almost 30
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Sex: Your Steamy Questions with My Husband
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It Could've Worked Out But... ft. Lauren Jauregui on Breaking Up with Ty Dolla $ign
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When Your Soulmate Becomes Your Ex
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I Thought I Was Straight Until I Met You Feat Kiana Lede
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Celibutt...Good Lord It's Hard Ft Stephan Speaks
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If You're Single, You Have to Listen to This Feat Glo Atanmo
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The Surprising Highs and Lows of Sex and Love(?) Under the Influence feat. Sarah Levy
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Dangerously in Love feat. Nick Viall
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The Butt Plug Story that Summarized 2022 + 20 Other Questions to Ground Your Year
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Good Sex because of My Best Friend feat. Good Moms Bad Choices
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Yes, I was the Villain in My Relationship feat. Jessie Reyez
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If You Really Knew Me, You’d Leave Me feat. Steelo Brim
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I'm Concerned About Our Love After Kids Ft. Jared Brady
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Go to Therapy or We're Over Ft. David So
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This is What Happens When a Single Woman Turns 30, feat Kamie Crawford.
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Longterm - Sex Is Hard (NO pun intended..or maybe it is) feat. Kev On Stage and Mrs Kev On Stage
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Dating in Your Twenties (is) For Dummies FT. Harry Jowsey and Georgia Hassarati
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Sacred Sex For People Who Don't Believe Featuring Tanerélle
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I Don't Sleep with Women, But I Do Have Sex with Them feat. Sincere Show
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He's a cheating, code-less mother fucker feat. Tefi Pessoa
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Tall, Dark, Handsome and Sexually Insecure feat. Mike Johnson
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Do We Believe Her? ft. Abby De La Rosa + Submissive Women Episode Response
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Giving Birth, Saying Bye to My Husband and Discovering Who TF I Am
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My Nightmare Living With A Pregnant Woman - Jared Brady Takeover!
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I'm Ready to Give Birth and I'm Still Not...Excited. What Now? feat. Shanola Hampton
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Help! Should I Leave Him or Double Down on Loving Him? feat. Tee
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Soul Mates or Settling? The Friends to Lovers Story feat. Ezee and Natalie
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Men's Ego: The Real Cock Blocker for Great Sex feat. Tim Chantarangsu
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I Baby My Man and It Works For Us feat. Jasmin "Watch Jazzy" Brown
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Blowjobs: Everything You Didn’t Know You Needed to Know feat. Rayna Greenberg GGE
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Toxic Self Love feat. Nina Parker
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Don’t Ask Me My Sign
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My Breakup was a Break Free ft/ Sorelle Amore
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I (kinda) Hate My Lover ft/ Jazzmyne Jay
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The Debatable Legacy of Kevin Samuels
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Let’s Talk About They, Baby
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Sex and the Saints w/ Shameless Maya
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Am I Undateable? w/ Khleo Thomas and Mandii B
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My Ex Was a Gaslighter w/ Melissa Rivers
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You're Dating Out of Your League w/ Harry Jowsey
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The Funny Thing About Love And Sex w/ Hannah Berner
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This Baby Is Killing Our Sex Life
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Why Straight Men Are Boring In Bed
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Breaking Up Is Fun To Do w/ Kamie Crawford
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Dating In Your Twenties. One Word: Resentment
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The Naked Truth On Loving Your Body
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Boss In The Streets And (Currently) Meh In The Sheets w/ Rachel Lindsay
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Hi, Meet My Mental Illness!
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Is It Cheating? Or Is It An Open Relationship?
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Hey, Can We Try Something Freaky?
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Are You Caught Up?
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I Don't Want To Break Up But I Need Some Space
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Just So You Know...We Ain't F*ckin!
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I Do...Think About Divorcing You
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He Might Be Better In Bed Than You
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Naked Barbies and Humping Pillows
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Rape is Not Sex
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I'm Done Waiting For A Ring
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Porn Sucks!
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She Switched Up Since She Got a Man Feat Jeannie Mai
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Do We Really Want Vulnerable Men?
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Did You Hear She Has Herpes?
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Help! Why Can't I Orgasm?
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Hello, Lovers And Friends
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