Everything you know about confidence is WRONG | Matt Monday

“Looking back, I almost feel sad for the version of me who thought his mixed signals were some deep, mysterious love language. I would overthink every tiny thing he did, trying to decode meaning that simply wasn’t there. I was addicted to th…”

“i nearly lost a $20k promotion because a senior manager decided she wanted to sleep with me. she started sending messages that would've ended both our careers if HR saw them. id recently been trying the Gravity Doctrine method because i tho…”

“Incredible advice! I love this so much. It's been a week, and I'm really struggling. I lost the person I love because of my own mistakes, and I take full responsibility. What we shared and the future we planned meant everything to me. I wan…”

“Confidence is so overrated. It's the sign of a sick culture to value confidence so much over things like character and integrity. Oftentimes the most confident people are the dumbest. As Bertrand Russell said, the whole problem with the wor…”